Introduction – Part I: Defining the problem – Antigay bigotry and you – The anticipation of angst: Rising above expectations – Understanding and managing your anger – Why people hate: The origins of prejudice – Scapegoating: What it is, how to deal with it – True morality and the moral dilemma – Part II: Finding solutions – There’s more than one way to respond – Guidelines for encounters with family, friends, and co-workers – guidelines for encounters with acquaintances and stranger – Going public: Radio, television, other forums – Dealing with issues: What gay is and is not – Challenging the messages and the messengers of antigay bigotry – Referendums on gays and lesbians in American life: The military ban, legal marriage, antigay ballot initiatives – Final words: The good news.
